Right i've not read the rest of this thread but i've just seen the incident on the football league show. For a start, it wasn't even a foul, let alone a second yellow. The charlton bench jumped up and imo influenced the ref to send jarret off. Jarret did not "boot" the ball at parkinson, it was a little tap, it had no power on it whatsoever. So for him to say "what if it had a lady in the crowd" is utter bollocks.