Yup, I have some very definite ideas about music for the wedding, it is the only thing I am bothered about. No band, no singer, no string quartet, no abba, no rubbish music whatsoever. If we get a dj then he is not alllowed to talk at all, he can play the music but I do not want any words to escape his mouth go through a microphone and out the PA.
My preference is to hook my mp3 player or a laptop up to a PA and play a preset play list of my choice, although this is very much still under discussion. I can see me having to compromise and hire a dj but I will be giving him certain tunes to play and if he dares play any abba or similar stuff that I do not want to hear, let alone try and talk then I will break his legs.