Embarrasing thread? It's a light hearted request to ease up a little. Not a suggestion to bring in the firing squad and mow you all down.
I go week in, week out. I've paid for 24 season tickets in twelve seasons and also raised money for te club via PlayerShare.
Atmosphere is great when it happens. Incessant drumming isn't atmosphere. It's tedious, repetitive and Neanderthal.
Drumming is OK by me. Just tone it the fuck down. Bang the skin a little less often, be a little more subtle with it. Retire the thing until the next match if the game is well and truly lost.
Your expression of selfish intolerance doesn't show you in a good light. Compromise a bit.