The only people who can put the "community" feeling into it are the fans and they can do it despite the owner and his failings. It can be in the form of protest [which, it seems, they cannot agree on] or to just be fans together and vocally support the team on the pitch. I'm sorry, but in my opinion it is about the football, as that is what the fans go for and pay to watch. When I first began supporting this club, I went purely for the football, I didn't have a clue or an interest in what the directors were doing or the ins-and-outs of the club staff. I didn't care, it was just about the football, being entertained, being part of the crowd and hopefully winning.
By the way, I am not "hurting".
Frustrated at times, maybe, but it is football, only football and it occupies my Saturdays and sometimes my Tuesday evenings.
I am not saying you are wrong to feel how you do, however, not everybody is the same.
You need to realise that.