You raise some good points here and touch on some thoughts I've had about Dickov and the future.
It seems to me that it takes a very talented man to bring a bunch of lads together, foster an excellent team spirit and then have it in him to discipline players and not be one of the lads when necessary. Most managers are only going to be good at half of that, you're either going to be the players' friendly Uncle or the strict headteacher. At our level you could argue (tentatively I suppose) that a more pragmatic long/medium term plan would be to have a few years under a manager such as Dickov, (who I don't think many of us would argue can spot a player - whether or not he can get him playing) where our young team is put together and bonds into a tight unit, then when results really get bad enough (i.e. possibly now/end of this season) a more hardline manager comes in, probably one with more experience, to give the team a kick up the arse and get them playing in a disciplined manner.
Just a thought anyway. Totally ridiculous I suppose because football club chairman don't think like that.